Almanac Books: Review – Book event for ‘Second Innings: On Men, Mental Health and Cricket’

 

 

 

 

 

Book event for Second Innings: On Men, Mental Health and Cricket

 

Will Yeoman interviews Barry Nicholls

 

Around 30 people attended an evening hosted by Writing WA’s Will Yeoman at the Western Australian State Library. The event was a platform to discuss the profound themes of Second Innings: On Men, Mental Health, and Cricket. Below are some observations about the book and the night.

 


 

 

Barry Nicholls and Graham Lewis

 

Forty years ago, almost to the month, my long-time friend Graham Lewis and I shared a 150-run partnership for the Ashford Cricket Club in the annual fixture against the Presidents Eleven in England. Graham contributed most of those against an attack, including former Australian opening bowler Dave Gilbert and NSW all-rounder Phil Marks. My memories of the match are of Graham hoisting several sixes over the mid-wicket boundary so easily it was as if the ball was arriving in slow motion. Despite the short tree-lined boundaries square of the wicket, it was no mean feat.

 

Another memory was my father attending the game—he was in the UK continuing his collaborative work with the Royal Radar Establishment, which had begun in 1965 when our family lived in Worcestershire for nearly four years.  The match against the Presidents eleven was one to remember.  It was a long, midsummer’s day that stretched into the early evening, with the result coming in the final over of the match. The type of day that you hope will never end.

 

My point is that sometimes, life treats you well. It is as if you see the ball like a watermelon. Other times, you can barely lay bat on ball.

 

Graham and my father were significant figures in one way or another when I recently spoke about my book  Second Innings: On Men, Mental Health and Cricket. My father had long since passed, although the memories of his indelible mark on my life remain. Graham had travelled from Adelaide and was seated in the front row. It is fair to say that the last decade had not been kind to Graham, whom I have known since we were both teenagers studying Phys Ed at the now-defunct SACAE campus at Underdale. Two bouts of blood cancer and the debilitating aftermath of stem cell treatment rendered Graham, for some years, barely mobile – his life turned around by his relentless will to live and recover, and more recently, a newly invented ‘walking bike’ called The Alinker (named after the Dutch woman who invented it to help her ageing mother – one of those ideas you wish you came up with yourself). Graham is, therefore, very familiar with the resilience required to overcome severe challenges in life.

 

And so here we were, all these years later, albeit briefly staying at my apartment in East Perth, within a lofted drive of the WACA, sharing the same roof as we had while playing in the Surrey Championship League. While it wasn’t quite a matter of turning the clock back four decades, for both of us, now in our early 60s, there was a great rekindling of stories: the friends made, the lager consumed, the miners’ strikes, and the West Indies trouncing England during that summer of 1984.

 


 

On the night of the book event, Will Yeoman skillfully led the discussion, delving into life and writing with great perception. The conversation touched on various themes, from resilience, stigma and growing up in a turbulent household to the role of sports in our lives and communities, the power of storytelling, and the writing process. Second Innings weaves these themes into its narrative, with cricket providing the through-line, not the book’s substance.

 

At the end of the talk, the audience asked questions. Graham was one of them. He wondered how he could have missed the tumult in my life described in Second Innings. I suppose that is the point about trauma and mental health—one learns to hide it well, much like a magician. It shows that no matter how well you know someone, you may not necessarily know what is happening in their life.

 

Barry Nicholls chats with Almanacker Peter Baulderstone

 


 

The stigma attached to poor mental health is still present, although thankfully less so now. Like many things in life, mental health is not life-defining, nor should it be. At some stage, most of us are affected and lead productive, vibrant and enjoyable lives.  In cricketing terms, you can’t do much about the unplayable balls, but the ones on a good length just outside off stump can be quickly dealt with if you have the technique and willingness to do the work. Discussions surrounding mental health that reach beyond the superficial are not just worth having; they are crucial—for all of us.

 


 

 

Some of the audience from the event

 

 

Graham Lewis adds his observations of the event with Barry.

 

Observations

As a novice in literary circles, I had little idea of what and who I’d encounter. Would I be surrounded by ‘arty’ types articulating a well-formulated critical view of a piece.

 

I should have known differently. Barry’s ‘publicity team’ had assembled a mixed crowd, some with a keen eye for sporting history, others were health professionals, a few friends and the rest keen to hear from the author.

 

“He’s drawn a bigger crowd than the social researcher Hugh McKay”, observed Writing WA’s Will Yeoman.

 

Once all were seated it was clear that a career with the national broadcaster had made Barry very comfortable in front of the ‘microphone’. He eloquently spoke of Second Innings being a ‘different type’ of writing compared with his ‘once’ removed historical publications. It required putting himself in the story, to reveal details of the nightly ‘war’ that raged between his parents, to give graphic accounts of his elder brother’s suicide attempts and then his ongoing ‘battle’ to resist the dark clouds and inner rage which drove him towards the abyss.

 

Contrary to the experience of many who venture into the memoir genre, Second Innings was written quickly and painlessly. Also at odds with others was the fact that Barry did not find the exercise therapeutic, but rather an opportunity to tell a ‘ripping’ good story.

 

Once released Barry found many people approached him to share personal accounts of similar experiences, a perhaps unexpected but very positive effect. People seemed keen to linger after the Q&A, perhaps indicative that the event had a similar effect. It created a little space for people to talk about mental health in a deeper more meaningful way.

 

 

To see more about Second Innings: On Men, Mental Health and Cricket go to

https://fremantlepress.com.au/books/second-innings-on-men-mental-health-and-cricket/

 

 

Barry Nicholls is a former A-grade district cricketer who has written about the sport for three decades. He also broadcasted on ABC Radio for nearly 20 years. Barry has written nine books, including You Only Get One Innings: Family, Mates and the Wisdom of Cricket and For Those Who Wait: The Barry Jarman Story and The Pocket History of the Ashes. He has also contributed to Inside SportWisden Cricketers’ Almanac Australia and other publications.

 

You can read more from Barry Nicholls Here.

 

 

 

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Comments

  1. Colin Ritchie says

    Thanks Barry, keep up your wonderful work promoting mens’ mental health – we need to be more aware of accepting, understanding, and dealing with issues confronting us.

  2. Mickey Randall says

    Pleased it went well Barry. I found your book instructive, and it’s encouraged me to contemplate my situation and that of others around me. Thanks.

  3. Malcolm Ashwood says

    Excellent Barry and fantastic to read also about Graham’s recovery geez what a fighter also glad the night went well

  4. Bernard Whimpress says

    Congrats Barry and Graham
    On a great event and how you’ve described it in both words and pictures. If you haven’t read it go out and buy Second Innings, a truly courageous work.

  5. Barry Nicholls says

    Thanks Col, Mickey, Malcolm and Bernard. It was a terrific night and heartening to see so many people attend.

  6. Rob zadow says

    Seeing Lewie today and no doubt he will regale his visit with you in some meticulous detail and sincere passion given his admiration for you.
    Zadz

  7. E.regnans says

    Well played Barry.
    Shining a light on mental health is a wonderful thing.
    Sounds like you’ve almost seen off the second new ball. Make hay.

  8. Barry Nicholls says

    Cheers Rob. G.Lewis was striking the ball well in Perth.
    Thanks E the pitch is flattening I just need to watch out for the odd bit of reverse swing!

  9. Daryl Schramm says

    Great stuff Bazz. I do love a good ‘book event’. I’ll get around to sourcing your book in due course. Currently spending a bit of time on Stop Snoring (the easy way and the reasons you need to), Five Arguments All Couples (Need to) Have, Man Down (Why men are unhappy and what we can do about it), and How to Quit Alcohol in 50 Days.

  10. Fran Gilby says

    My husband, recently diagnosed with Alzheimers, is loving your books Barry. He’s just finished The Establishment Boys. He is enjoying the memories, all vivid to him of his youth in the 1960s and 70s and into the now. John’s an avid reader, he’s loving your style Barry and you are his kind of author where you do not put yourself into the story. Your story tells itself. I’m being constantly read passages with great delight. Thank you for giving him such joy.

  11. Fran Gilby says

    I’d love to get another copy of ‘Second Innings’ please Barry.
    To Andy ….
    Can you tell me how thanks. Kind regards, Fran

  12. Barry Nicholls says

    Thanks Daryl you sound like you have an extensive reading list!
    Hi Fran thanks for the very kind words – feel free to email me at [email protected] and we can work something out.
    Cheers

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